Ever wondered which part of your body she likes? Well, my mind has wandered off (too oft) on the matter and believe me, this one is a shocker.
Forget the proverbial Longfellow down south; it is a magic maker, yes but sometimes all a woman needs is a man who uses his hands. History abounds with men accomplishing greatness, against impossible odds. David slung a precision shot to fell a giant, Picasso gave us the Monalisa, and someone invented a toothbrush.
But for all that ingenuity, men have been found clueless about what to do with their hands, while with her. How about some thoughts from the horse’s mouth?
No woman felt calmer than when locked in a manly embrace. Sometimes all a woman needs is a man to hold her; for support, for warmth and sometimes for something as petty as listening to your heartbeat when she rests her head in your chest. Women calm down when we hold them, they relax and who knows, all that proximity has to count for something; a chance to fulfill yours or her day’s longings. So hold her and ease those storms raging in her heart.
I don’t think so.
Yes you hold hands in public but while alone, you can ditch the show that has us thinking you are brother and sister. Sometimes she wants you to switch it up; hug her from behind, tickle her. Feel free to fondle and grasp because all that touching is bound to increase pleasure. Touch is essential when building up to the main event but sometimes, we all enjoy a good curtain raiser. Sometimes she just wants you to lend a hand with the proverbial piano. Pleasure is much more than just coitus interruptus.
When they say, “Sweep her off her feet,’ they mean it literally (sometimes). Disclaimer: Carry her if the woman is carriable otherwise, do so at your own peril. Women love to feel their weight under the man’s (and I must stress) capable hands. But make sure you don’t drop her. If you are not certain of your strength, you can set her on a supporting surface, the kitchen sink or a sturdy piece of furniture.
When the heels take their due toll on her cute little feet, it is time to call in the pro masseuse. Dude, I know what you’re thinking but her feet can never stink worse than yours. SO suck it up, and take those feet in yours hands. A foot massage calms her nerves and you don’t want her nail guy stealing all your mojo.
Cook a Meal
A man should cook for his woman once in a while, and it doesn’t have to be lasagna or some fancy recipe out of a Serena kitchen. Whip up an omelet for her, make her breakfast. And not just meals get your hands dirty with some home chores. Clean the house, do the dishes…Phew! The list is endless; just plan to surprise you sweet darling.
Just Help Her
Many a time our sisters can’t wrap their minds around handy work. Women can be frustrated by the pettiest of things. Help her open the jar, wash the car, fix the plugs or fit the light bulb. Sometimes, she just needs help with her bra, or the zip on her favourite party dress, other times she will ask you to undress her. Simply put, give her a helping hand.
Make Your Presence Felt
Ever felt like you don’t want to talk, those brain-dead moments every guy unconsciously sinks into? But the two of you are alone. And no woman loves to be ignored, especially when you are physically present. So before she invades your ‘nothing’ moment. Grab her, hold her tight, hug and cuddle. My friend, let her know you’re there, and you care.
When a man holds a woman, his embrace is a shield from all strife that could haunt her. But then again, a man also needs to stand up for his dearest. While she considers it gentlemanly to exercise diplomacy in conflict resolution, on some days a man needs to stamp his knuckles on a douche’s face. Never let another man insult insult your wife/girlfriend/sister or mother in your presence. The goal is not in winning the fight; getting pummeled on her behalf will endear you to her even more.