Guys, today we are doing the ladies a solid. From the top man in State House in Entebbe, down the status strata to the last goat herder in Kyempene, Rubaare, and the law is universal. Here are nine things that we men do but that ladies just can’t stand us for. These will literally turn her off like a light.
Bad Personal Hygiene
While most of us may have the basics pinned down when it comes to personal hygiene, most of us are far from achieving the A-game. Long, dirty nails, unkempt hair, bad breath and body odour are terrible turn offs. And that musty scent you get after exerting yourself physically; women can’t stand your man musk.
If I had the power, I’d make wearing bad shoes a capital offense; one can never stress a point any further. Over the ages, ladies have developed a reflex that compels them to check out your shoes like it is their lifeblood. Simply put, ladies notice your shoes. SO avoid, dirty, old, tired shoes or anything that looks like Sekandi when he wakes up.
Uhmmm, how do I put this? Insecurity is the unsexiest trait a man can even show to a woman. Confidence wins approval in your social circles. C.O.N.F.I.D.E.N.C.E is sexy. Constantly seeking assurance is a lame; it turns off ladies and your dudes too. Don’t do it, just don’t. Don’t ask who she was on the phone with. Don’t ask if
Do you want to look like a douchebag? Congratulations because that is what being rude gets you; it is a mega, inappropriate way to behave. Don’t be rude to waiters, bodaboda guys, taxi touts or the cleaner at the office. Don’t be rude to anybody. It is not worth it especially if you’re dating.
Avoid trashing your ex girlfriends whatever the case. Some guys resort to ex girlfriend talk but that is just bad forum for a conversation with another woman. Secondly, avoid contact with your. What is the point in going forward if you have not moved on.
Dirty Little Boys
This rises above personal hygiene; keeping a dirty car, or dirty bedroom, kitchen or bathroom and keeping dirty laundry will have her running for the hills. Ladies could care less what you have, just keep the stuff you have clean because living in filth ain’t cool.
Poor Convo Skills
For once guys, pay attention and listen to the damn woman. I know it may feel like a trial most of the time but throw the guy logic in the trash and listen like a shrink. If she is talking, forget about your cellphone, stop checking other people out; just focus on her. Listen goes beyond your ears; involve your eyes and the entire body. It is easy to know when someone is not paying attention to you and it kills her vibe. And lastly, don’t interrupt her. Let her finish and then you can talk.
A clingy guy sucks. Who said you have to participate in all her plot. Don’t insist on following her to her girls’ night out, it is not your place. Even when she asks you to join her and the girls, be quick to object; get an excuse for God’s sake. And stalking guys who like her Facebook posts, come on. You are not her father!
Being Selfish in Bed
A guy’s enthusiasm for bed games may be insurmountable but few guys are actual aces in the sheets. Failure to make an effort in bed will kill her mood and any hint of interest she ever had for you. Think of sex as an audition, and you have to make it to the next round. Blow her mind every time because sex is unlike football, pedigree counts for nothing. Form is everything, so be Leicester not Liverpool.
If you observe these cardinal rules to the T, you’ll be fast on your way to becoming the top dog you have always dreamed of. Good luck.