We all strive towards becoming a great person who is compassionate kind and caring. However some people have behaviors that hinder them from being nice thus making them annoying and unattractive.
These bad habits often lead people to not want to associate with or be around someone with these characteristics.
These are some of the habits that come off as annoying and unattractive.
You Focus on Outer Beauty and Ignore the Inner Beauty: Such people know they got it all, they have the looks to ride along with. This beauty always gets them to places, and opens for them opportunities and they forget beauty comes from within your heart, body, and soul. People with unattractive behaviors think that outer beauty is all that matters.
You are Self-Absorbed: You focus on yourself, talk only about yourself, and don’t care what is happening to others. Such people think they are the only ones that matter and this makes you an attractive person who no one wants to be friends with.
You are Rude: Most people do not know that they’re rude but actions do speak louder than words. Being impolite is annoyingly unattractive. Greet people, say thank you. Listen to your friends and do not embarrass them with your uncouth comments in public. Do not make a scene just to emphasize a point.
You are Unreliable: When you have a problem you want to be helped but when your friends have problems you are nowhere to be seen because maybe you are “busy”. You are that person that your family and friends cannot count on and no one wants to associate with someone they can’t depend on.
You are Always Negative: You are always turning other people’s opportunities down and being pessimistic all the time. This is quality that makes you unattractive. No situation is permanent, if you’ve hit rock bottom do not drag others down with you, Notice the positives too about your friends, don’t always see the negatives.
You are Always Competing With Your Friends: You want to be better than all your friends hence making you unattractive person. Learn not to be selfish and let your friends and loved ones shine. Compliment their every achievement it doesn’t kill you to let others take the spotlight.
You are Dishonest: You tell lots of lies about everything to your loved ones and friends. This makes you unattractive seeing as you are not being honest. Someone once said “the truth shall set you free.’ Speak the truth because at the end of the day it is the truth.
Yes we all know that no one is perfect but let’s try to improve on our bad habits for our well being as we continue to strive to become great people.