We all have professions that we aspire to live. We spend thousands of hours preparing to be just that. And with passion, hard work and desire we succeed. But as you achieve your professional ambition, you lose an even important aspect of your life.
Because of your new work lifestyle, slowly your sex life depreciates, you wonder why but your mind wonders to factors that are farfetched. Time goes by and it persists. The life you wanted to live starts to eat away a part of you but you don’t know what to do and you are too busy to give a thorough thought.
There are professions whose working environment, timing and demands are not favorable for someone to live a satisfying sex life. With such jobs, you can’t find time to have blissful sex with your partner and at the end of it; it affects your relationship and family, for those that have kids.
Marriage counselors over the years have emphasized the importance of sex in a relationship. Basically it is the epitome of a successful relationship. This means that partners should find time to always have sex. Sex presents a time to bond as a couple, reflect on your relationship, it is that important.
In the article we look at some of the common professions that are a catalyst to having a dreadful sex life.
Journalism is a fun profession, no doubt, but with this fun comes the challenge. Journalists are known for their turf deadlines, working late hours and always being on the move. These are traits that leave you with no time to think about. When a journalist finally finds time to have sex, he or she will rush it.
It is hard to get sexually emotional when you have unaccomplished assignments. You will be thinking about the emails you will have to send, follow up phone calls, the interview in the morning, the editor’s backlash for not submitting the article in time. It gets hectic and it is often times transferred to the bedroom.
On top of working late hours, journalists are found of carrying their assignments to their homes. Instead of attending to the kids and eventually his or her sexual partner, a journalist will be working on his stories. This kind of lifestyle frustrates the neglected partner.
By the time this busy journalist enters the bed, the other partner is demoralized and asleep, that the love making is postponed to another day. Journalists usually get abrapt assignments out of time which means that he or she will be available another day is not quaranteed.
Health workers barely have time for their families. They are always attending to emergencies at their work stations. Their work load is much so they return home tired and knackered sex is the last thing on their mind.
They best they can afford is a cuddle and they dose off. Health workers are early risers. Early in the morning they rise to prepare for another long day at the hospital or clinic. To them morning glory is a luxury they cannot afford.
A number of health workers are found of suffering from mental breakdowns because they are always dealing with pain, anguish, suffering and depression which in a long time weighs on them and lose touch with reality and emotions. Without sounding stereotypical, turning on such a person is a hard job so you end up eating him or her raw.
Some health workers are exposed to sex in their line of duty they find nothing new when they get home. Imagine a gynecologist of midwifery nurse. They are always dealing with sex organs. Male gynecologist might find hard to be aroused by his woman’s nakedness as he deals with naked women every day. Same can happen to a male obstetrician and female health workers that deal with reproductive health.
People who work with computers are synonymous with prestige, class and intellect however all that comes at a cost. Computer engineers and all ICT gurus invest a lot of time to perfect their art. The time they spend infront of their desk tops, laptops and all those mobile gadgets eats into their socializing time. They love to work in the night when the world is cool and silent yet this is the time their lover are available. They usually leave their lovers in bed to finish something that they couldn’t finish at office.
“You could be working on a project and the more you get into it, the more you invest your time in endless researches and developments. During this time, you shutdown from the outside world and the end result is becoming a code junkie or nerd, always on PC or doing code leaving no time for your partner.” Arthur Kasirye, a web developer and techie explains. We can’t say more.
Drivers’ especially commercial drivers are known for being womanizers. They are known to have a woman at every town. This is most common with long distance truck drivers, cabbies, taxi and bus drivers. But having various sex partners doesn’t mean you are having a health and satisfying sex life. There is no proof that sleeping with several women means you are a good performer in bed.
Most drivers are known to be ‘beepers’ or what is known as ‘one minute men’. They don’t last long enough to satisfy a woman. They usually use money to lure women not their skills in bed. The long hours of sitting in the driver’s seat affects their libido hence reducing their performance in bed.
The long hours of driving also leaves them tired, depressed, stressed with a fatigued body that can barely satisfy a woman. Bottom line is that drivers much as they usually have several sex partners suffer at the hand of underperformance sexually.
Sales and marketing
This a common choice for university students who study business administration and other business courses. Sales jobs are readily available however they are demanding. What makes it even unenviable is that sales people earn their check in form of a commission.[related_posts]
Sales people walk a lot which means they are tired at the end of the day. Who wants to have sex at the end of a fruitless day in town? Sales people take long to get married. The male sales people are usually broke and unable to sustain a love relationship while the girls use sex to get business from their clients.
For a female sales rep to get a juicy job, most times, has to give leg to some horny decision make in a government ministry or department or a corporate company.
Such dealing gave birth to what has come to be known as corporate prostitution. Girls are using their bodies to clinch deals. Trust me no one will have a perfect relationship with such a life.