There reaches a time in your dating relationship when you have to make a step forward and make her your wife.
You have done it all, things that lovers do apart from tying the knot, living under the same roof and having kids.
Deciding to marry your girlfriend is a big decision to make in the first place. Once you make up your mind to make her your wife asking her should be fashionable though romantic.
Make sure you do it in the most memorable way because she’ll be telling this story of how you proposed to friends and family for the rest of her life.
Go as far as making it epic, be her hero, give her no room to say no, make her proud. In this article we present some of the best ways you can make your proposal decisively erotic.
Choose a favorite place
You can choose a fountain, hotel rooftop, monument or national park that has places of significance to the two of you. This should be without her knowledge and make it casual.
This might involve travelling out of your home town to a place far away from your usual life. It can be your dream holiday destination.
Remember this is about her; therefore make a decision while considering her tastes. Once you’re there, while she is relaxed, pop the question.
You can have some people to help you without alerting her to say take pictures, deliver gifts, cut cake and all that you deem worthy being part of the occasion.
You can also take the creativity a notch high by bringing out the artistry in you. You can go musical by having a choir, brass band or drum line show up for a surprise performance.
Because of our busy working schedule, such a feat is good on a weekend. It can be at a concert, sports day event etc, for a really personal touch, ask the performers to help you out.
If you are at a concert ask the performer to call you on stage with her then pop the question all beautiful focused girls wait for a life time to hear.
The event can vary according to you life’s interests, tastes and availability.
Slip the ring in Sleep
This must be the easiest and most simple one especially for lovers living together in the same house and bedroom, those one who are cohabiting.
Just slip the ring on her while your soon-to-be fiancé is sleeping and then do a romantic morning wake-up call with breakfast in bed. Admire her as she wakes up, don’t tell her, let her find it.
She might not notice it instantly but when she does then she will be awed and feel loved. This kind of proposal is good for the easy, simple laid back girls who don’t fancy the pomp and glamour.
You know how girls wait for valentine flowers at office from their lovers all day every 14th of February? Well if you lover is the kind that loves attention and a show off, this particular trick can work.
While collaborating with her workmates sneak into her office before she arrives in the morning or during lunch time break and leave your marriage proposal on her desk with the engagement ring.
Stay hidden from sight until she shows up. Believe me, once she sees the note with your handwriting, and the message, she will be unsettled, anxious to know if it’s a prank or real.
In that moment come out of your cover and in the presence of her workmates ask her hand in marriage. Trust me she will feel loved, wanted and proud of you and herself. This will build her confidence, who knows her performance.
First Place Proposal
In the distant past, one would meet their potential lover physically at some random place unlike today were people are falling in love online with only pictures and wordily descriptions.
In past, places where you first meet your lover remained memorable just like the first words used or let’s just say like the first time you have sex.
It would be a good gesture to take her to the place where you met each other for the first time. It would mean that you have been following your love story.
Recreate the same moment and then propose to her. It will definitely move her and get embossed on her memory for lifetime.
This is for the young and hippy. Get a t-shirt with the text “will you marry me” and wear a jacket over it, take her to a place where you usually meet up.
You can use a couple of your friends to wear t-shirts with inscriptions of your proposal, for example four people wearing t-shirts with “will you marry me” each person wearing a t-shirt with one of the words.
Propose on Radio/TV
Singer Fille went through this when his boyfriends, MC Kats, a local TV presenter, at a live concert proposed to her with thousands of viewers watching his live televised show recently. So it can work.
Any girl would love the guy proposing to her to have the guts to say in front of thousands of people watching or listening over the radio waves.
If you know she listens to radio at a certain time every day, do more than just dedicating her love song, propose.
In Uganda many radio stations have love programs in the night where listeners call in to either get love tips or surprise their lovers on their birthdays.
This is a good way of asking the presenter to call your lover so that you can propose to her. This way she can feel secure, feel like she only owns you and you don’t fear to show it off.
It should be something memorable and sweet. Dedicate her favourite romantic song. Have the radio play you the “song,” and a sweet proposal after the song. A Yes is guaranteed.
Spell your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers on your ceiling. Get into bed, turn the lights off and wait for the inevitable gasp.
You could even parlay this into a full date night ending with your proposal. This is also good for a couple that stays together.
There are so many ways you can use technology to deliver your marriage proposal. You can use social media websites like Facebook, Twitter or a personal blog to propose, this is a public declaration of your love, so you’ll be able to share your proposal with friends and family.
Be a poet for one day; write her a poem about your love to her & propose to her. Burn a CD with all her favorite romantic songs, the last one should be your voice saying the romantic words of “will you marry me”. You can sing her a good love song, don’t mind your cocky voice, she will love it.
Go out for a night of dancing and ask the DJ or bandleader to pass you the mic so you can dedicate a song and propose on the dance floor.