Many of us grow up watching the happy ending kind of movies and programs and that’s why we believe that Mr Perfect exists. Well, truth is we are only lying to ourselves and living in denial, Mr. Perfect doesn’t exist in real life but he definitely does in movies and dreams.
We have all grown up thinking and wishing we get to meet the so-called Mr Perfect but many of us, our dreams have not come to pass. When a lady clocks 30 years of age and she is not married despite her great financial status, education level, good family background, this moment is so disturbing and that’s when the “perfect” lady questions self what has she is wrong.
Mr Perfect doesn’t exist because no man is perfect, they all have their own frowns and so do you! There is a man out there, he may not be perfect, he may not be Mr Charming or even sweep you off your feet but he may be the man of your dreams, the one that will you will live with happily ever after.
Many women out there decide to sit back home and just like Cinderella wait for their Prince charming to come to them on their laps. Stop deceiving yourself, this will never happen! Yes, there is a right guy out there but he’s not waiting for you or looking for you because he doesn’t know you or even your existence. It’s just like living in dreamland.
Ladies, drop your desire for perfection and drop your idealized romantic notion that when he is right for you, you’ll know it the first time immediately and you’ll see a sign. Don’t pressurize yourself to find out if the guy you’ve just met is the Mr Perfect because you cannot find out that moment. Even if it’s love at first sight, there’s no assurance that love will flourish although and you’ll get married and live happily ever after.
Whenever you meet a guy, don’t just blush him off because you’re looking for those particular qualities you presume your Mr Perfect is supposed to have. He may have one or two of the qualities and not the third and forth. Does he now qualify to be your Mr Perfect? No, we’ll now describe him, as Mr Next to Perfect. Settle for such a guy because he maybe the best you’ll ever meet because the perfect Mr Perfect doesn’t exist.
You are the only one who knows what is most important to you, and the qualities that are essential to you in your husband. And when you think about these qualities, think about those that do not fade with time, and those that will be necessary when things are not so easy in life. You may want someone good looking, or muscular, or with a stable job, but these are things that can all change instantaneously. We lose our looks with age, and we can lose our job without any notice. But a person who is compassionate, responsible, supportive, caring, dedicated, etc., is the person who will be able to adapt to whatever comes your way in life.
It sounds like, if you really want to settle down and find someone with whom you can spend your life, you need to spend some time realizing the kind of life you want to live and the kind of person who can help you accomplish that. Recognizing your own flaws will also make you more compassionate and accepting of someone else’s. I hope to hear good news soon, when you find the one with whom you can truly grow and develop.