For most women, their daily wish consciously and unconsciously is – to have a faithful man that will love ONLY them and treat them like they are ‘ the only girl in the world’.
Sadly, this is never the case most times. Cheating is so common in relationships and marriages and the goal of a cheater is to do it to their best BUT make sure they NEVER get caught – unless they want you to know.
I have actually heard a man confess that ‘there is no man out there that has only one woman in their life’- that women should learn to live with that as a fact of relationships … I don’t entirely agree with this; but it sure scares the hell out of me (in case its true).
Bottom-line: I personally believe that when you love someone, you should accept both their perfections and imperfections, although in extreme circumstances where .. say, your life is at stake, you can always apply extreme measures.
However: just for a piece of mind, ladies … there are some signs that show you have a faithful partner.
According to EL CREMA magazine; Faithfulness or cheating is not written on a man’s face but a lady can probably tell her man isn’t having a sexual affair with someone else.
Here are the signs;
1. HAS NOTHING TO HIDE
The faithful man has nothing to hide; he isn’t sneaky about his phones and every other thing. A man that cheats is never hundred percent free with his phone; a call or message could pop at any time and he wouldn’t want to be caught up in that; but the man that’s faithful doesn’t have anything to hide, secrecy isn’t in his diary and he makes sure his lady knows this.
Where does your man’s loyalty lie is one question every lady should ask herself when in a relationship. A man that’s loyal to his lady would rather not be anywhere but with his lady, when he has a spare time he spends it with his lady. A man that’s loyal wouldn’t mind showing you to the world as his lady; when he treats you like the only woman in the world then that’s a sign of loyalty; a man shows loyalty to his lady not just in words but in actions.
3. COMMITMENT LEVEL
One thing you might want to ask yourself is how committed is your man to the relationship. How much passion does he put into that relationship? How much does he try extra just to be with you and to please you? Gauge his seriousness in that relationship from a scale of 1 to 10; anything less than 10 shows that there is one percent chance that he’s cheating. You might think it’s a harsh judgment but it isn’t; faithfulness needs a hundred percent loyalty or commitment level and there could be that one percent chance that your man is cheating if he falls short on being loyal and committed to that relationship.
4. NO FLIRT ZONE
The man that’s faithful to his lady avoids cheating on her by all means and by that he doesn’t even try to be flirty in his actions(what some refer to as ’emotional cheating’); he doesn’t really feel the need to impress other ladies, he isn’t carried away by the appeal of other women. This is so because the faithful man has all his desire placed in just one person and anything that falls short of this could mean your man is getting some extra booty somewhere.
There is nothing like a man that’s honest and upright in his words and actions; that’s the quality of a man that’s faithful. Once deceit enters the picture or when there is a thing or two to hide then you should know that there is a little problem. Faithfulness isn’t a regular trait, it is extraordinary and it requires a whole lot of honesty. A faithful man is an honest man; once he’s told you that little lie then anything can happen from then on but if he has no reason to lie then that’s the faithful man.
6. RESPECT FOR YOU
A man that would hit you has no respect for you and that means he could cheat on you as well; a man that would tell you all manner of lies has no respect for you and could as well cheat on you; a man that doesn’t value you or your feelings or make no efforts to understand you doesn’t have respect for you and that means he could as well cheat on you. However, a man that has total respect for his lady and also respect her feelings would give no room to cheat on her because he’s too in love or cares about the way his lady feels to do that.
Now, I believe that real women should empower each other instead of being so hateful and envious of one another, so if you have other signs… please share with us.